One of the things that holds people back from going after what they want is fear of the unknown and fear of judgement. I’m often asked, "Do you care what other people think of your posts?" or "Do you worry people will be offended when you invite them to your groups?" Well yeah....I want people to find my posts interesting, motivating, valuable and cute (especially the ones of my family). And I want people to know they are welcome to gain support and accountability from others working towards similar goals. We live in a society where people try to tear us down. Last night I watched ESPN’s 30 for 30 highlighting Coach John Calipari’s career and these words jumped out….”People don’t like you when you beat them or have success. They only pat you on the back when THEY win.” It’s sad but true. So many times we put others down for doing a great job rather than celebrating their success with them. Instead we should lift people up rather than always co